Do you have multiple dogs? My home is always lively with my four: Siri the Dalmatian, Mungo the Spaniel, Dexter the Chihuahua, and Emba the Pomchi. I love the joy and companionship they bring, but one of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned over the years is the importance of teaching each dog to be independent.
Why Independence Matters for Dogs
Years ago, I had two rescue dogs, Charlie and Lucy, who were inseparable. They did everything together, but when Charlie passed away unexpectedly, Lucy struggled deeply with his absence. I realised that by allowing them to rely so heavily on each other, I hadn’t prepared them to be comfortable on their own.
Now, with my current four dogs, I ensure each one learns to be independent. While a strong bond is beautiful, it’s also essential to foster individual confidence. This way, your dogs will be better equipped to handle any changes, whether it’s a stay at the vet, a recovery period, or just time spent apart.
Why It’s Important for Dogs to Spend Time Apart
As much as we enjoy seeing our dogs bond, there are times when they may need to be separated, whether due to illness, injury, or differing schedules. Dogs that are overly attached can suffer stress when separated, which can lead to behavioural issues, like separation anxiety. Beyond health concerns, independent dogs are generally more adaptable and confident, making daily life easier and more harmonious.
How to Encourage Independence
If you’re looking to foster independence in your pack, here are some practical steps to help:
Spend One-on-One Time with Each Dog
Start by setting aside individual time with each dog, whether it’s a solo walk, a training session, or a game in the garden. This time builds their confidence and strengthens your bond with each one. My dogs are perfectly happy spending time apart and enjoy their unique routines.
Crate Time or Separate Spaces
Introducing short periods of alone time can help, too. Use crates, separate rooms, or baby gates to create temporary distance. This teaches your dogs that it’s okay to be on their own and relax independently, which is beneficial for their confidence and emotional health.
Vary the Routine
Avoid always doing the same activities as a group. Instead, vary your dog’s routine by taking one dog on a solo outing while the others stay home, or do a focused indoor training session with just one dog. This variety encourages adaptability and reduces dependency on their packmates.
Focus on Individual Training
One-on-one training is an excellent way to foster independence. During these sessions, your dog can focus solely on you, boosting their confidence in working independently. Once they’ve mastered skills individually, they’ll be more comfortable and focused around their packmates.
Activity of the Week: Nose Touch
A great exercise to promote independence and focus is the “nose touch” command. Teaching each dog to touch their nose to your hand on command helps them learn to work individually and strengthens their attention.
How to Teach Nose Touch:
- Hold out your hand: Position your hand in front of your dog.
- Reward the touch: When they touch their nose to your hand, say “yes” and give a treat.
- Add the cue: Practise a few times, gradually introducing the verbal cue “touch” as they understand the action.
Not only does this trick improve focus, but it also fosters confidence, as each dog learns to follow your lead individually rather than just mirroring their packmates.
Want More Training Ideas to Foster Independence?
If you’re looking to deepen your training and keep your dogs happy and balanced, check out my Wags without Walks membership. It includes training videos, weekly challenges, and Zoom sessions tailored to support your dogs’ unique needs.
Until next time, keep those tails wagging!
Laura Carter IMDT
With over 15 years of experience in dog training, Laura Carter has dedicated her career to enhancing the bond between humans and their canine companions.
Based in Scotland, Laura lives with her twin daughters, four dogs, and a variety of other animals.
A member of the Institute of Modern Dog Trainers (IMDT) and a certified Scentwork UK instructor, Laura brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to her work.
Her expertise in dog care and rehabilitation is showcased in the book The Vet Says Rest, a valuable resource for pet owners navigating their dogs’ recovery.
Laura also brought her passion for dogs to a wider audience as a trainer on Channel 4’s Superstar Dogs alongside John Barrowman.
Her work continues to inspire and support dog owners everywhere, helping them build happier, healthier relationships with their pets.